Sharon Stewart, Author
Sharon Stewart is a lifetime sufferer of this victim complex. At 40, she started to change her life around by leaving her victimhood behind.
Sharon shares everything she learned in order to overcome her extremely unhappy and sometimes dangerous circumstances so that you too, can become more empowered and learn to forgive all who have hurt you.
Sharon's method only requires a journal and some time to look at your life and to change your thinking. Life will provide the rest.
You'll find yourself standing up to bullies, setting limits with people, and not putting up with others' dysfunctional toxic behaviour as you leave behind the world you learned and open the door to a fresh new life of happiness. It's been done and you can do it too!
Victimhood is a logical response to someone's mistreatment of you; a false identity, a false face you put up to try to stop yourself from further victimization, however it doesn't work. Your effort to appease those others who are either predators, bullies or just have poor boundaries is making you miserable, because being miserable is part of the role. All of these dysfunctional ways of behaving aren't appeasing the bullies, in fact they want more from you as predators will do.
You have to learn to change the way you interact with yourself and others and stop this from wrecking your life any further.
"When we attempt to exercise power or control over someone else, we cannot avoid giving that person the very same power or control over us." - Alan Watts