That's just a true statement. There's really no explanation needed, is there?
Complaining to someone chronically, listening to someone complain for hours on end, like I did yesterday, is verbally abusing them. Everyone has problems now and then, but creating relationships based on your need to complain to them is just toxic. People do it. I have a person who's interested in friendship who I'm about to give the heave-ho because this is what she did yesterday. I will tell her and I will tell her why. People think it's loving to listen to others' problems. It's not. It's abusive towards others to complain chronically. I use the time to understand how they plan on treating me in future and making an assessment of whether I want to be their friend or not. What about the listener? What do they get back from you? Complaining - holding the attention of another person for hours on end - is an attempt by an energy vampire to gain back the energy they're missing by not doing their inner work. Vampires have poor soul connection, and as a result, they vampire energy by using tactics like complaining for hours. The vampire will always focus outwards, never inwards. They know there is no energy there. So they hunt by either reeling in the unaware, or trying to change people in relationships to suit themselves. They manipulate, they use guilt to make you feel sorry for them, and they give nothing back for everything they have stolen from you. They are energy thieves. And believe me, there are many of them in this world.
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