I can’t relate to a functional family so I don’t know if there is a power structure within functional, healthy families but I can tell you there certainly is in a dysfunctional one.
I’ll use my own as an example. The reason there are power structures is for the sake of vampiring energy. Children are a good source of energy because they’re not so damaged and energy blocked as adults are. So in the dysfunctional codependent family, there is a power over others structure in place. The higher energy ones (all people are not created equal, they should have equal rights, but some are of higher soul energy than others) are at the bottom of the food chain. The higher the food chain goes, the lower the energetic capacity of the family member. The higher you go, the more needy the member is. Middle energy members are in the middle ranks and since they possess less to give to the low energy dysfunctional parents, they are more coveted than their higher energy siblings and receive more positive attention from the parents. The higher energy siblings are used as food sources for energy vampiring parents, with chaotic scenarios created in order to rob these children of their precious life energy. They receive more of the negative energy of the parents in exchange for their positive life energy. They are literally being used as a food source and supporting the entire family energetically. People exchange energy all the time because we ARE energy. Matter is only energy slowed down enough to be able to be perceived as solid. We are energetic beings in reality, with much access to the higher energies of life – until we block it off by becoming dysfunctional. I have noticed my sister, who was in the middle ground, make strides in changing herself with seemingly little effort whereas for me, it took moving mountains to make the same progress. Why? I was one of the higher energy children who suffered from more vampiring attacks. In my family of 6, my parents were most dysfunctional (both narcissists) in need of energy to sustain them. They were also in control of the family to get their energetic needs met. My younger brother was the apple of their eye as he was the only boy who could carry on the family name, which is pure egotism. My older sister was next, in the middle. She tried to protect the other kids from my father’s rampages and for this she was abused, but otherwise didn’t suffer as much as we did. My mother also didn’t use her as a sounding board for all her complaints like she did me. At the bottom were me and my older autistic brother, who suffered the most abuse from my father. My older brother is very high energy like I am.
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