I've met many people who can't come up with a list of 10 things they love about themselves. Ask yourself, "Why does X love me? What is it about me that he or she sees in me?" If you can't understand why they love you, then you have low self esteem. The way to improve your self esteem is to connect with your Higher Self. This can be done by going straight through all your character defects (I'll bet you can make a big list of things you DON'T like about yourself, can't you?) and learn to see them as you on a learning curve. Stop judging yourself as bad for having them. Everyone has character flaws. Nobody is perfect. You're in good company. Learn to accept yourself even with your flaws. Then you'll understand why people love you. It's focusing on what you think is wrong with yourself that's keeping you from seeing anything else. If you have to, make a list of all the things you've done to help people out. Everything you've ever done. You're only seeing one side of yourself. There is two. As a victim, you tend to see people as taking advantage of you. But they all don't. Some are there for you. Now be there for yourself. You can thank me later.
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