Another one of our rights: We have the right to be ourselves, to make mistakes and not to be corrected on them by someone who positions themself as our superior. Advice givers and rescuers are who I'm specifically talking about. This is an example of the power over others structure being enacted. Any behaviour where one seeks dominance over another is.
We have the right to say "no" to what appears to be offers of help. These people seldom give us help out of compassion for us, but rather they appear to be helping us in order to condescend to us and enforce their feeling of superiority over us. This is their egotism in high gear. I've found in the past that these so-called helpers are also gossips who laughed at me behind my back. One of them was my mother. Mistakes are part of the learning process we're all engaged in. Anyone who's intolerant of your mistakes needs to take a look at their own selves. However, people have the right to choose who they wish to engage with in life. If your process doesn't resonate with the person, they have no need to engage with you if they don't choose to. It goes two ways.
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