Someone just said this to me: "I've enjoyed this experience. I've gotten a lot from it and I'm sure you've had some insights too."
Don't tell me what my experience has been. You have no idea. I replied back to the person that what my experience has been is for me to know and not for him to dictate to me. Don't tell other people what their experience was. All you're doing is projecting your wants onto that person and hoping they'll confirm them for you. And it has nothing to do with them, but what you want to hear. It interferes with their free will to have whatever experience they want to have and not to deny it. If the experience was negative, then it was negative. If it was good, then it was good. But that's totally up to them to decide, not for you to dictate out of your own needs. People behave selfishly all the time. When you're more aware you understand this and you just don't listen to them anymore. You walk your own path. Many violations of your rights are conducted in the name of "being nice."
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