I think this one is obvious. You want the abuse to stop, don't you?
If you're allowing others to pity you, this just keeps you in the victim position, less than others position. Is that what you want? Others to always look down on you? Compassion is a bit better. People who are compassionate allow you to learn your lessons and their hearts may ache for you but they don't interfere. You need boundaries. You need to learn to say "No, That's not okay! I won't accept that and that's too bad for you!" You need to understand that you count too. Speaking your mind only confirms that you count.
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